What is the Realistic End Goal?

When we start our journey in making music, I don't think we tend to think too heavily on the Realistic End Goal. Yeah, everyone wants to be a rock star and get jumbo jet like Led Zepplin, but soon the reality hits that it is harder than it appears. The idea that you created a song that had not previously been in the world, and that it is yours, can be quite the sense of accomplishment. You might begin to ask yourself, "What is the one milestone that would make me feel like this has been a success." The time usually does come when there is a goal or business aspect to our music career. I have been trying to figure out what Realistic End Goals there might be. Here is my list so far:

1) To feel you have left an impression in the music scene (local, national, and/or international)
2) To feel you have touched someones life or a group of peoples lives with you music
3) For the band to be a self sustainable force, not financed by your day job or parents.

Yes, there are many small accomplishments along the way. I might be thrilled I got selected to play the local ice cream social, but after all is said and done,is that enough. When do you consider your music career a success?

Charlie275